MEET REBECCA CLARK, LMFT
SUPPORT THAT SEES BOTH SIDES. A FRAMEWORK TO move forward.
Couples therapist in Newcastle, Maine.

I BELIEVE THE PATH TO CLOSE CONNECTION ISN’T THROUGH AVOIDING OR PREVENTING CONFLICT—it’s through feeling the emotions underneath it.
I specialize in EFT intensive therapy for professional couples—particularly therapists, physicians, and business leaders—who want to foster a deeper relationship and reignite their spark.
Working with me is…
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When we feel disconnected, it’s natural to get stuck in patterns that push us further apart. I help you slow down and get curious about what’s happening beneath the surface. Instead of pointing fingers, we’ll notice the roles each of you play, explore what’s driving them, and work on communicating in a way that helps you feel seen and known. Because at the heart of it, you don’t just want to win an argument—you want to know you matter.
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There’s no “bad guy” in the room. I listen to both of you at the same time, holding space for how each of you is experiencing the relationship. You’re both trying to make things better in the only way you know how, even when it doesn’t come out right. I help you see not just what’s happening inside each of you, but what’s happening between you—because the relationship itself is what we’re here to heal.
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Conflict can often feel like a tangled mess—my job is to help you make sense of it. I offer a clear framework that guides you through understanding the cycles of conflict in your relationship and creating a sense of security that allows you to feel close again. It’s not about following rigid rules—it’s about gaining insight, responding instead of reacting, and finding a way forward together. The good news? We have a map.
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Talking about your struggles isn’t enough to heal from them—we have to feel through them. In our work together, I walk with you as you actually experience the emotions that drive your patterns, rather than just analyzing them. The goal is that this work doesn’t feel too overwhelming—I’ll help you navigate through at a pace that feels manageable, taking breaks when needed. This is deep work, but you don’t have to do it alone.
20+ YEARS OF strengthening bonds.
As the first certified Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) therapist and the first clinical EFT supervisor in the state of Maine, I am proud to have brought Emotionally Focused Therapy to my home state. Since then, I’ve had the pleasure of training and collaborating with some of the best EFT therapists in the world. I truly believe in this process’ ability to help us understand, connect, and heal because it’s helped me do just that in my own relationship. Every couple gets stuck—we’re only human, after all. But after walking alongside hundreds of couples on this journey, I know that coming together again as a team is possible.
Learn more about…
My Background & Training
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Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Maine #MF4478
MS in Human Development/ Marriage and Family Therapy; Virginia Tech, 2003
BS in Family Studies; Messiah College, 1998
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ICEEFT Certified EFT Clinical Supervisor
ICEEFT Certified EFT Therapist - Couples
ICEEFT Certified EFT Therapist - Individuals
ICEEFT Certified EFT Therapist - Family
Multiple trainings in Emotionally Focused Therapy (too many to list)
Providing Workshops to therapists on Intro to EFT and other topics
Providing workshops to couples based on book Hold Me Tight by Dr. Sue Johnson
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International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT)
(AAMFT) American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy; Clinical Fellow
New Hampshire Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (NHMFT)
EFT Maine - Founding member; President 1/2022-12/2025
Collaborative Family Healthcare Association (CFHA)
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My faith background is Christian, and if your faith is important to you, I’m happy to bring that into our work together. However, I would never push anything on you—this is your space, and I want to meet you where you are. If faith plays a role in how you understand your relationship, we can explore that together. And if it doesn’t, that’s absolutely okay too—either way, my focus is on helping you build the connection you’re longing for.

START YOUR JOURNEY BACK TO ONE ANOTHER.
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